Hello everyone, I would just like some kind and real advice on what you would do concerning success and trial?

It sounds like this man has helped you out greatly and you are in a much better place. If you find yourself slipping, grab a tight hold of what you've got at the moment You're the only one who can help yourself. Not ending up in the same spot as your parents should be your greatest motivation. just cause you have messed up, doesn't mean you can't straighten out. Just use support and motivate the crap out of yourself. i know it sounds cheesy, but if you actually set goals, you will have something to work towads. try 3 diff goals: 1. short term- goal for the next month 2. medium term- 3 months 3. long term - 6 months to year. try writting it down and reviewing them daily. Its worth a shot!